A Wider Selection of Wine with your Cheese

We are trying to figure out tactics and strategies that will reduce Charlotte's whining. She seems to ask for things in such a distasteful whinny voice and mostly when she's with David. Any ideas? We are trying to impress upon her that she can have almost every reasonable request granted when she asks in a normal voice. Then again, if this is the only side effect of age Two...not bad at all.